Guurku waa qaybta ugu muhimsan dhismaha bulshada, jacaylkiisa waa inuu run ahaadaa, caadi ahaan guurka waa midka lagu ilaalin karo jiritaanka aadanaha, diinta islaamka aad bay xoogga u saartay guurka iyo qoyska iyo degaanshaha laga rabo, wuxuu yiri Alle (SW):
{وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ}
(waxaa ka mid ah Calaamooyinkiisa inuu idiinka abuuray naftiina Haween si aad isugu xasishaan, yeelayna dhexdiina isjacayl iyo naxariis, taasina waxaa ugu sugan Calaamad qoomkii fikiri)
Wuxuu yiri rasuulka (SCW):
(خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ، وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِي)
(Kiina ugu khayrka badan waa kan ehelkiisa ugu khayrka badan anigaa idinkaga khayr badan ehelkayga).
Waad u jeeddaa guurka inuu yahay wax aad u qiima badan oo ku dhisan jacayl iyo naxariis, marka guurka waa inuu ahaada midka gudnaya ujeeddada loogu talagalay taasoo ah in qofka naftiisa ku ilaaliyo sidoo kale inuu koonka camiro.
Kan waa ulajeeddada dhabta ah ee guurku ku salaysan yahay.
Laakin marka uu ka baxo guurka khadkan, wuxuu gala meelo kale qaab daran.
Sida guurka ku dhisan danta gaarka ah.
Kaasoo ah tusaale ahaan nin ayaa wuxuu rabaa inuu guursado gabar, laakin dantiisa waa inuu ku meel gaaro, ama lacag ay haysato ayuu rabaa, ama wuxuu rabaa inuu visa ama baasaboor ku qaato, sida maanta ay sameeyaan rag badan, siiba dadka Africa ku nool oo raba inay galaan dalalka yurub iyo America.
Dumarna way jiraan oo iyagana sidaas ah, raadinaya nin ay ku galaan yurub.
Marka guurka noocan ah, wuxuu ku dhamaanaa marka qofka daneystaha ah uu dantiisa gaaro.
Ileen marka hore uma soo galin, inuu guri dhiso oo waajibaadka kasoo baxo, taas waxaa ka dhalanaya furiin iyo is nacayb daran.
Dad badan ayay haysataa sheekada noocan ah.
Guurka waxaa la rabaa inuu ku salaysnaado hadaf sare, ubad iyo jacayl iyo iskaashi.
Ninka waa inuu ahaadaa qof daacad u ah naagtiisa oo aan been ku dhaqaynin, marka uu sidaas noqdo, guriga wuu hagaagaa.
Sidaas oo kale iyadana waxaa laga rabaa inay daacad u noqoto, danta gurigooda inay eegaan, iyo caruurtooda, si ay usoo saari laahyeen ubad aqoon leh, tarbiyaysan oo daacad u ah bulshada.
Haddii iyaga ay isku mashquulaan ilmahooda xitaa ma toosayaan.
Maanta dadka soomaaliyeed qurbaha ku nool, qaar badan dhib weyn ayaa haysta, iyagoo nolol haysta lacag haysta haddana ma degana , kalsoonida ayaa ka tagtay, taasoo dhan waxaa u keenay beenta iyo kalsoonidarida.
Waxaad arkaysaa rag badan guurdoon ah sidoo kale gabdho guurdoon ah, guurka uma raadinayaan inay mustaqbal fiican helaan, waxay u raadinayaan yaan ku dangaaraa, guurka noocan ah waxaa ka fiican doobnimo.
Raaxada guurka waxay macaan tahay marka lamaanaha ah ay daacad isu yihiin.
Jacaylka lamaanaha ah markaas, sida la rabay ayuu u dhacaa, laakin haddii sheekada been ay ku dhisan tahay waa wax aan natiijo fiican lahayn.
Astaamaha ugu weyn jacaylka dhabta ah waa inuu ninka ama naagta ay daacad u yihiin guur toosan aan dan ku salaysnayn.
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Dardaaran ku wajahan hablaha la qabo video
Marriage is supposed to be based on high goals, children and love and cooperation. A man should be faithful to his wife and not lie to her, when he is like that, the house will be fine. In the same way, she is required to be honest, to look after the interest of their home, and their children, so that they can produce educated, well-educated and loyal children to the society. If they are busy their child will not even wake up. Today, the Somali people living in the diaspora, many of them have a big problem, they have a life, they have money, but they are not settled, they have lost confidence, which is all caused by lies and lack of confidence. You see many married men and also married women, they are not looking for marriage to get a better future, they are looking for someone to be with, this type of marriage is better than singleness. The bliss of marriage is sweet when the spouses are faithful to each other. The couple’s love then, happens as it should, but if the story is based on a lie it is not a good result. The main characteristic of true love is that the man or woman is committed to a straight marriage that is not based on interest.
